BEFORE YOU GO: A DAUGHTER’S DIARY


Title   Cast   Director   Year Shown  Other Info    Country  Notes 




USA, 1995, 55 min

Shown in 1996

CREDITS

dir
Nicole Betancourt
prod
Nicole Betancourt, Susan Lazarus
cam
Nicole Betancourt
editor
Nanette Burstein, Zelda Greenstein

OTHER

gga award
Golden Spire, Film & Video: The Family

COMMENTS

Shown with Breathing Lessons. Nicole Betancourt in person.

In 1993, Jeffrey Betancourt died of AIDS. His daughter Nicole’s video diary about him, however, takes on much more. Mixing home movies she took as a child with more recent video footage, Betancourt explores her relationship with her father and chronicles the devastating effects of his illness on one family. Her dad was a charismatic cipher, perhaps because he was gay. Betancourt uses the camera to learn more about him while there’s still time. Like cinema verité filmed by an insider, she compassionately probes her parents’ failed marriage, the dynamics of her extended family and her father’s ravaging illness with a clear, yet deeply invested eye. As death approaches, her father is finally willing to discuss his gayness with unprecedented honesty. Betancourt’s unique perspective lifts this documentary and makes it a remarkable testament to personal strength.

—Glen Helfand